Body In Mind Nutrition

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3Ks1ceHkus&feature=player_embedded

One of my clients said it best, "now it is not OK to just look like a mom, now you have to look cute too".

“Women with eating disorders who are age 30 and above fly under the radar in terms of getting noticed and treated,” says Dr. Tamara Pryor, clinical director of the Denver center and the author of the study. “Over the past four years or so, we've been seeing more midlife women with eating disorders in our center.”

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/23680261/

As I coach and guide my clients to become aware of their eating, their thoughts about their bodies, their choices to rid themselves of the food they have devoured, I ask them to be a student of their behavior and to please try to "drop the judgement".  To struggle in disordered eating is to struggle with the harshest of inner critics.  Asking to drop the judgement is a very tall order, yes, but essential.  To begin to  see food as nourishment and not the enemy requires the harsh, mean voice of judgment to be quiet. A calorie is a source of energy-and that is all.  Drop the Judgement.

This poem by Jane Hirshman beautifully describes the internal dance we all have with Judgement.  I highly recommend listening to the audio as a way to begin your day with the intention to Drop the Judgement.

http://www.poetryfoundation.org/archive/poem.html?id=31251

Have you ever noticed how much promise there is in starting a new diet?  How many numbers there are?  How effortless it all sounds?  How all of your dreams come true if you just get this one right?  No wonder the continued seduction to start "fresh" with the next diet is so powerful!!  But most of the diets with the promises are not sustainable ways of living your life in the real world.  There is another way to approach controlling your eating and your weight WITHOUT DIETING!  This post does a good job of summing it all up!

http://www.healthforthewholeself.com/2011/02/conquering-the-urge-to-diet-three-steps/

Yes, there is good reason to try to make healthy choices when you are deciding what, and how much,  you are going to eat.  But sometimes, trying to make these choices starts to take on too much importance and creates a rigidity in your behavior and an imbalance in your life.

Most eating disorders start with a "diet" or an attempt to start to eat "healthy".  Below is a link to a well respected and validated screening test which you can give yourself to take a look at your own attitudes about eating.  Identifying eating problems early, before you become entrenched in these habits, can mean preventing your own eating disorder.  If you think that your attitudes about eating and food have become rigid and create emotional discomfort, please ask for help now!

http://psychcentral.com/quizzes/eat.htm

Just a little something to raise your awareness of the presence (NOT) of women in your movies...check it out!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=bLF6sAAMb4s

One of the most common themes with my clients struggling with eating issues is anxiety and/or an inability to tolerate strong feelings.  It is fairly common to use eating, not eating, purging, excessive exercise, and/or obsession with controlling body size as a way to cope with anxiety and uncomfortable feelings.  Learning the skill of calming you mind and tolerating emotional discomfort is essential in both preventing, and recovering from, disordered eating of all types.

"The same mind that can create such harsh judgments is capable of undoing them through the power of awareness and attention."


This article by Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche summarizes the process of developing awareness very well:

Step one:  The Main Exercise

• stage one:  just notice and identify what you’re thinking or feeling
• stage two:  meditative awareness - approaching thoughts and emotions as objects of focus through which we can stabilize awareness, again without judgement
• stage three:  intuitive “tuning in” to determine the effect of the practice

This week is National Eating Disorder Awareness Week.  I will post every day this week in dedication to this cause.

Today's post is to acknowledge the essential nature of loving one's Self to both protect yourself from this very mean dis-ease and to recover from it.  As you read this wonderful poem from The Writer's Almanac, The Kama Sutra of Kindess:  Position Number 3 by Mary Mackey, read it to your Self as your object of sweet love.

To kick off National Eating Disorder Awareness week, check out the powerful partnership of NOW and NEDA!  Check out these videos and/or submit your own!

What you can you do?  Just try one week of being intentional about ending your own "Fat Talk".  This is harder than it sounds because the "Fat Talk" in your own mind counts!  Would love to hear your ideas...

http://now.org/press/02-11/02-20.html

I am posting a blog about a reaction to an article in today's NY Times regarding Obesity research in primates.  Obesity is a serious problem and research which provides insight into eating behavior is essential.  However, this author makes several points which ring true and of them, I would like to share this with you:


"Fight the problem of obesity yourself: the solution is ancient – ignore your restless monkey-mind and eat mindfully.
Let’s face it: there is no shortage of overweight primates (just look around); there is a shortage of humanity and compassion.  Fill the gap.
Wake up, fellow primate!"

Another example of simple, but not easy.....


http://blogs.psychcentral.com/mindful-living/

When the domineering, the harsh, mean voice in your head is pushing you to be perfect, talk back!!  What we consider to be our problems and our flaws are opportunities to be liberated from the craziness of perfectionism.  Self-compassion is the antidote to perfectionism and frees us to be fully, joyfully, in the flesh human!

 Below is a link to a video of Krista Tippett presenting on the topic of " a linguistic resurrection for reconnecting with compassion" to the United Nations, well worth your 18 minutes!

http://blog.onbeing.org/post/3401777593

 This is an old article, but worth reading again.  Bittman does a great job in writing an overview of the environmental impact of eating meat, so I thought I would post it.  I'm not saying "go forth and be vegetarian", but eating less meat is a really good idea!

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/01/27/weekinreview/27bittman.html?_r=2

We all try to pack so much activity into our lives, that we many times forget that our bodies need to be nourished every four hours or so.  This is especially important for kids and teenagers, but they need the support of parents who plan, and make time, for snacks.

"Parents need to work with teens on managing their time, planning healthy meals and snacks and providing them time to eat," she says.
"Parents need to role model the behavior they are looking for in their teenagers as well. Monkey see, monkey do.
" If Mom and Dad don't take time to eat breakfast, pack a healthy lunch and have nutritious food stocked in the house, it sends the message to the child that nutrition is not a priority."

http://www.timesunion.com/default/article/Running-on-empty-1009607.php

I hear it all of the time, "I know what to do, I just can't do it!"  Telling yourself why you should exercise doesn't motivate actually changing your habits.  Imagining yourself being active and creating a very specific plan about how you can go play is the most effective way to start.  Picture yourself enjoying the activity that you can successfully begin in your current life.  Maybe taking a walk with a friend instead of going out for lunch, maybe asking your sweetie to take a walk after dinner, maybe asking a friend to join a dance class?  Be highly intentional about making time for play and moving your body, put it on your calendar and keep it visible (use your gadgets and apps to help you remember!)  Set achievable goals and then take note of your successes with a "how I took care of myself" journal.  Skip the gym class "shoulds" and move straight to recess!!  


" Behavior strategies include feedback, goal setting, self-monitoring, exercise prescription and stimulus or cues. Self-monitoring, any method where participants record and track their activity over time, appears to significantly increase awareness and provide motivation for improvement, Conn said."



http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/02/110217171342.htm

If you want to check in with your 2011 Intentions or Resolutions, take a minute to read the most recent Newsletter out this morning!

http://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Essential-Peace-for-Real-Behavior-Change.html?soid=1102783429410&aid=KjdhmSvemUw

"The good news? In preliminary results, the researchers are exhilarated to find that a diet high in Omega 3 oils and low in cholesterol appears to significantly reduce the negative effects of the APOE4 gene  (associated  with developing Alzheimer's disease) in mouse models."

"The main take-away message here is that good diets can alleviate the effects of bad genes. Of course nutritionists have had this general idea for a while, but it's nice to be able to show that this approach can be applied to specifically counteract the negative effects of Alzheimer's disease-related genes," says Prof. Michaelson."

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/02/110215102848.htm

If you are tired of your dinner ideas (we all get in ruts with our dinner menus), give black rice a try.  You can make up great stories about exploring other cultures, countries, or ancient history and your kids will think you ( or your dinner) are way cool and exotic!!  The truth of the matter follows, along with a link to another black rice recipe (see yesterday's blog for more).

"(NaturalNews) In ancient China, nobles commandeered every grain of a variety of black rice known as "Forbidden Rice" for themselves and forbade the common people from eating it. Now 21st century scientists have discovered that black rice truly is a treasure -- at least when it comes to nutrition. In fact, a spoonful of black rice bran contains more health promoting anthocyanin antioxidants than are found in a spoonful of blueberries, plus the rice bran has less sugar, more fiber and an abundance of vitamin E.

That's the conclusion of Zhimin Xu, Associate Professor in the Department of Food Science at Louisiana State University Agricultural Center in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. Dr. Xu just announced his research team's findings at the 240th National Meeting of the American Chemical Society (ACS)..."

So you have shown those who are special to you how much you love and care for them.  What about you? The women in my Eating With Your Body In Mind course and I enjoyed a wonderful yoga class with Sydney Hughes-McGee last night and it was one of the best Valentine's Day gifts ever.  Aaaaaaaah..... Please give yourself permission for Self care every single precious day!

http://www.eatingdisordersblogs.com/minorities_and_men/2011/02/valentines-day-redux-tending-your-garden.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+typepad%2FGurze%2Fminorities_and_men+(Recovery+Matters

I hesitated to write about the New Dietary Guidelines published Jan. 31 by the Departments of Agriculture and of Health and Human Services because there are no really big differences to point out.  But the little things that are different are significant and worth talking about.  The overall message is that Americans need to "eat less" in general, which means our bodies really don't need all of what we are eating.  Politically, this is significant because the food industry lobbyists lose out when we eat less in general.  For us to eat less, we may also buy less!  So this is a move toward supporting our health and not the food industry-that's certainly good news.

Also, my continued recommendation to pay attention and to eat without distraction, holds true.  Mindful eating supports eating less and is much easier when we are making smart nutritional choices and are being physically active.  All of these behaviors support one another beautifully and you feel SO MUCH better when you get in the rhythm of living this way-without all of the worry, counting, deprivation, and struggle!!  Jane Brody's most recent column does a good job of describing these changes in more detail.  I disagree with only a few of her recommendations.  What do you think?

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/02/15/health/15brody.html?_r=1&nl=health&emc=healthupdateemb3